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Lay Down Our Lives: A Devotional for When You Give More Than You Receive

August 3, 2020
lay down our lives devotional

For today’s meditation, we’ll be discussing the call to lay down our lives. This is for mamas who feel like they give more than they receive. Have you felt that way lately? If so, read on.

Do you ever find yourself “keeping score” with how much parenting you’ve done versus how much your spouse has done?

I put them to bed three nights in a row… When is he going to do it?

When was the last time HE gave the “discipline talk”?

I cooked dinner AND did the dishes, so he needs to put them both to bed. 

We spent all day doing what he wanted to do, so it’s my turn tomorrow.

Can any of you relate to this?

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Chronic Pain COVID-19 Meditations

When God Has Other Plans

May 4, 2020
When God has other plans
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I’m a planner. Literally. My undergraduate degree was in Recreation, Parks & Tourism with a concentration in Event Planning. I enjoy planning things. In fact, one of my “hobbies” is planning vacations that I’ll (probably) never go on. 

The older I get, the more I bump up against this problem with planning: oftentimes, my plans don’t coincide with God’s plan. And it’s frustrating, and, at times, painful. 

Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.

Proverbs 19:21

When God Had Different Plans for Me

At the beginning of 2013, I started to have debilitating pain in my joints. At the time, I was a riding instructor at a local horse farm. I would get home from teaching lessons at the end of the day and literally crawl up the stairs to our apartment because I was in so much pain. I started to see an orthopedic doctor and then a sports medicine doctor, and when neither helped, I went to a rheumatologist, a chiropractor, an acupuncturist, a physical therapist… the list goes on. I got a knee brace, shoe insoles, a plethora of medications and side effects, and a myriad of injections in my joints. Instead of getting better, the pain only got worse.

With every new doctor, I would hope that this would be THE ONE. This would be the doctor who would know what was wrong with me. This would be the therapy to finally “fix” me. This medication would make it all go away. But it didn’t. I found the truth in this verse: “Hope deferred makes the heart sick” (Proverbs 13:12).

Three years into my journey with pain, I was consistently walking with a cane and taking several medications daily just to function. The pain kept me up at night—I spent a lot of nights crying on the bathroom floor, praying to God, feeling so alone and defeated. I was unable to work, barely able to go to church. There were days when I couldn’t even walk to the bathroom without help from my husband. This obviously wasn’t part of my plans.

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COVID-19 Fruit of the Spirit Meditations

Faith Over Fear

April 15, 2020
Faith in Fear
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For this week’s devotional on the fruit of the Spirit, we are looking at faithfulness.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

Galatians 5:22-23

The Greek term for faithfulness used in our key verse is “pistis” which conveys faith, belief, trust and confidence. This is the same word used when Jesus says things like, “Your faith (pistis) has healed you,” (Mark 5:34, 10:52) and in Mark 4:40, “Why are so afraid? Do you still have no faith (pistis)?” It is the same term used all throughout the “Hall of Faith” in Hebrews 11.

With everything going on in our world right now, it’s hard to be faithful. It’s easy to doubt what God is doing with this pandemic or in the various hardships he’s sending our way. Despite these storms, it is possible to have full faith in God – and not just blind, oblivious belief.

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COVID-19 Fruit of the Spirit Meditations

Peace in a Pandemic

March 25, 2020
Peace in a Pandemic
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The next fruit of the Spirit in our series is peace. This is a pretty crazy time to discuss peace. At the time that I write this, the Coronavirus is closing in on half a million confirmed cases. Countries are closing their borders and several U.S. Cities and states have issued stay-at-home orders. We can make jokes about Quarantinis all day, but this is a terrifying situation. 

So, how should we, as Christians, respond? 

In my opinion: with preparation, prayer, and peace. I’ve already written about how we should prepare for disaster, so I won’t go in to it here.

One of the most important things we can be doing right now is praying. If you head to my Instagram, I’m doing a series of daily prayers for this pandemic. Please join me as I pray for our world in crisis. 

Lastly, we should be at peace. We’ll get into the how later, but let’s talk about what peace is first. 

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Fruit of the Spirit Meditations

Fruit of the Spirit: Mama is Love

March 9, 2020
fruit of the spirit
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This week, I’m starting a series on the Fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5. I chose this verse because as moms, I’m pretty sure we all want to be everything in that scripture. Loving, joyful, patient, kind. But it’s hard. We get frustrated, impatient, lose our tempers. We get overwhelmed with the daily burdens of life. 

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

Galatians 5:22-23

I wanted to do a deeper dive on this verse to help me (and hopefully those of you reading this) to connect with and understand how we can grow in these areas. 

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Meditations

“Mama” Means Manager in the Master’s Kingdom

March 2, 2020
mama means manager in God's Kingdom
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For this week’s meditation, we’ll be looking at the parable of the wise and faithful manager. Because basically, “mama” means manager, right?!

Recently, after leaving a restaurant and strapping my son into his car seat, I handed him three out of the six toy monster trucks he’d brought with him from home. About a mile down the road, he says, “Mama, where’s my other monster trucks?” 

“Oh Finn, I left them in the door. I forgot to give them to you.” 

He considered my response and finally said, “It’s okay, but next time, will you obey?” 

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Meditations

Do You Love Me?

February 17, 2020
Do you love me devotional
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Before having children, I was often tempted to put my husband “above” God – to treasure my relationship with Tyler more than I treasured God, to get all of my hope and security in Tyler instead of God, to save up all of my thoughts, desires and hardships to work through with Tyler instead of turning to God first. Now that I have children, I’m still tempted to put Tyler above God – but it’s even harder these days to put my children before God. If I’m honest, prioritizing my children, and even idolizing them, comes as second-nature. They dominate my thoughts, enslave my emotions, and consume my desires. But this verse calls me to love God first.

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How to Pray Powerfully for Your Children: Praying A.C.T.S.

January 20, 2020
Pray Constantly
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So you want to pray more powerfully for your children, but you’re not even sure where to start. This is one of my favorite methods of prayer that my mom taught me when I was a kid. And now I use it all of the time, even without thinking about it! In this post, I’m going to show you how I pray A.C.T.S. for my kids.

A.C.T.S. stands for Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving and Supplication. I’m going to go through what that means in a minute, but first let’s talk about what it’s like to pray as a mom.

Motherhood changes the way we pray.

I remember when I was a college student and could go for long prayer walks. I could pray about every single little thing I could possibly think of…That seems so far away right now! Some days I’m lucky if I can string together two minutes of prayer. 

Rejoice always! Pray constantly. Give thanks in everything, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

But these days what I’m emphasizing in my own life is the call to pray constantly – while I’m mothering, cooking, cleaning, resting, falling asleep, and all the little in-between moments. I pray for my husband, my children, my family members, the members of my small group, my church leadership, this blog. I praise God and thank Him. I tell him what I’m worried about, what I’m excited about, what I’m feeling in the moment. I pray for His will to be done in my life. 

For more ideas of when to pray, check out this post: 10 Unexpected Times to Pray.

Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.

Romans 8:26

Sometimes I just pray: “God…” and that’s all I’ve got. Just like reaching out a hand to know He’s there. So He knows I’m there, relying on Him through this crazy life. 

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